Have you ever been in a situation where you FAILED to express your points even though you had a lot to say?
Maybe you were at a meeting, and someone was giving presentation and you had an AMAZING IDEA or point that could add value, but you didn't express.
Or maybe you were having a drink at a weeding party and during a gathering, you wanted to say but...you stepped away. You backed off.
Happens, right?
I will tell you 2 reasons why most people fail to convey their points.
Reason #1: They're UNCERTAIN about their idea/thought.
Reason #2: They're UNCLEAR about HOW to express & convey what they have in mind.
The first one is a CONFIDENCE problem.
The second one is a COMMUNICATION problem.
When you're UNCERTAIN about your idea, your self-talk (internally) is:
"What if I say it, and everyone judges me?"
"What if they laugh at me, and ridicule the idea?"
"What if...."
At this level, you have FEAR.
Fear of being judged. Fear of saying the wrong things.
When you're UNCLEAR about how to express, your inner self-talk is:
"I know what to say, but HOW do I say it?"
"Last week I tried to express but I was at loss of words."
"Why don't I get the right words at the right time to express myself?"
In both cases, YOU LOSE.
Why?
Because if you're UNABLE to express your thoughts & ideas, who will do that for you?
NO ONE.
Someone else with a less impressive idea who has the CONFIDENCE and the COMMUNICATION SKILLS will convey his points at that meeting, and get the VISIBILITY.
All you will do is CLAP FOR THEM.
That's a clap for them and slap for you.
How long will you let this happen to you?
If you want others to RESPECT you as a leader, you have to STAND OUT from the crowd with your speaking skills.
Silence is good during meditation.
It's not good when you have things to say.
Or else you will lose the opportunities...that someone else is bagging right now.
Think about it today...
About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “THE KING OF CONFIDENCE”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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